In reality; women are not the root cause of his problem and they’re only the media. It is not the women who’re creating this problem and it is his desire to mate with these women which is creating this problem. If you’re suffering from the problem of having pimples and you come to know that eating oily items increases this problem; you may choose to stay away from oily items. This way your problem may reduce though it may not go away. However, this practice comes with disadvantages.
You’re not treating the root cause of your problem and you’re instead choosing to stay away from circumstances which aggravate this problem. Hence this solution is not permanent. In addition to that; you may either develop strong dislike for oily items or you may develop strong liking for these items; depending on your personality type. This is because if you can’t have something; you may either end up liking it a lot or hating it a lot; depending on your personality type. We’ll discuss more about this, later on.
Hence if you keep engaging in such practices; you’ll keep having this allergy until you die. Accordingly; the correct way of dealing with it is to fix it from the root. When it comes to the body; any physical problem is gone with the body since it belongs to the body and when the body goes; which means you die; the problem also goes. However when it comes to the problems which belong to your subconscious mind; they never go away until you fix them; since you never get rid of your subconscious mind; throughout the journey of your soul.
It means though you keep changing bodies; you keep having the same subconscious mind. Hence the problems related to the body you have in this life may not be there in next life as you will have a different body in next life. However, the problems related to your subconscious mind may never go away on their own; no matter how many times you’re born; since you will have the same subconscious mind in each and every life of yours.
Since the desire to mate with more and more women in reality is the desire stored on your subconscious mind; though it may be temporarily fulfilled through your body; this desire is going to be there in each one of your lives; unless you get rid of it by some method. Hence if you keep suppressing this desire; you may not only end up suffering in this life; this desire may become one of your primary desires in the very next life; due to the fact that you’ve been suppressing it.
Since there is an equal and opposite reaction to every action; your act of suppressing this desire in this life can make it become a very dominant desire in the next life. It is like the hard surface of earth keeps stopping the lava inside it from coming out. This lava is suppressed continuously; pressure keeps building and a moment comes when the hard surface of earth is simply not able to suppress it any longer; and this lava bursts out in the form of a volcano.
The hard surface of earth in this example refers to your conscious mind whereas the lava is contained by your subconscious mind; deep within your existence. Since your conscious mind starts gaining strength after a specific age in each life and before that age; it is not strong; this lava may get out before that age. In general; the conscious mind starts gaining significant strength after the age of 15 and it is weak before that in most cases.
It means that in your next life; the conscious mind you’re going to have may not be able to oppose this desire in a strong way before you reach the age of 20 or 25; since your conscious mind may take 5 to 10 years to become significantly strong; once it starts gaining strength at your age of 15. Kindly note that the reason you may have been able to suppress this desire till the end of your present life if you choose to do so; is because your conscious mind has gained a lot of strength; due to the age factor. As a rule; your conscious mind keeps gaining more strength after your age of 15; unless you engage in practices which hinder its growth; like alcohol; drugs and a number of other things. We’ll discuss more about this topic; later on.
Therefore, if the desire to mate with women contains 100 units of energy; it may be the case that your conscious mind is able to generate more than 100 units of energy in this life; in order to resist this desire. Though you may suppress it due to this factor; two things are playing against your conscious mind. The first is the fact that as you keep suppressing it; your subconscious mind may keep assigning more energy to this desire. Hence as you keep suppressing this desire; you may start finding it more and more difficult to suppress it with the passage of time.
This is because your conscious mind may not gain more strength and hence it may find it difficult to keep this desire under control. Even then, you may be able to keep this desire under control for the rest of your life since your body may not support the fulfillment of this desire after a specific age; though you may never have peace within you. This is because your subconscious and conscious mind keep fighting over this issue and hence you may never witness inner harmony called peace.
The second and even more troublesome factor is that in your next life; the desire to mate with a number of women will remain the same strong as it is at the end of this life since this desire is being dealt with by your subconscious mind which will have the exact same strength at the time of your birth in next life; that it has at the time of your death in this life. Technically it means that till the age of 20, 25 or 30; your conscious mind may not gain the same strength whereas your subconscious mind will have the same strength right from your first moment in next life.
As a result, your conscious mind may not be able to suppress this desire till the age of 25 or so in your next life. It means that whenever your body is capable of supporting the fulfillment of this desire like at the age of 15 or so; you may naturally start fulfilling this desire. Hence you may start mating with females from an early age and by the time your conscious mind grows enough strength to suppress this desire once again; significant damage may have been done to your plans of achieving spiritual growth in this life.
This is because through repetition; your subconscious mind may develop a habit of mating with women and hence; you may now have to undo this habit. The rest of your life may once again be spent in suppressing this desire. You may be able to do so once your conscious mind gains strength; but the problem is not fixed once again. The same process may keep repeating and you may never get out of this desire; until you choose the correct method to fix this problem.